I’ve always been into the idea of it but never brought it up to her until one night we were out drinking. We were both pretty drunk and she ran into an old FWB and we all talked for awhile. They ended up dancing for a bit before he had to leave with the group he came with.

On our walk home, I told her that she looked good dancing with him and asked about how he was in bed. She seemed really into it and when we got home, we talked more about it while players and both got off really hard.

We didn’t really talk about it the next morning but the next time we went out and got drunk, I asked about other experiences and she told me about them again while we played and I told her I wanted to watch her with someone and she came really hard again. That next morning, I brought up how it was hot talking about it and she shut it down pretty quick. But the next time we went out, she was the one who brought it up first.

This has happened quite a few times but she just quickly tries to change the subject every time it gets brought up. Our sex life is really good and it’s definitely not a deal breaker but is there any way i can get her to open up more when i try to bring it up?h