I’ll try to be brief. Pardon the bullets lol

• We both really wanna try hotwifing. I will watch and mayparticipate..

• We are giving ourselves a year to feel completely comfortable with it.

  • Together for 10 years. We always have had “lots” of sex.

• We’re both professionals, with small children. As such, our solo holidays are limited to about four or five days each year.

With small kids our time is super limited so we wanna try the “surer thing”, instead of spending weeks looking through profiles, booking a plane and hotel and then get ghosted, and having to wait another year to try again.

She’s early 30’s. I’m late 30’s. In good shape and do good at regular clubs. Will travel anywhere in the US/Canada (remaining in the shadows/private is critical haha).

Now - We want to try a lifestyle club awayyy from our city. This way we can walk away if the vibes ain’t right. But can try a couple nights in a row if the place is busy.

Any suggestions to where and when? Like any Hotwife weekend events that folks can vouch for?

Feel free to DM’ing. I lurked around for a while and ended up opening a new account just to ask here lol

Any and all suggestions are super appreciated!