My gf has opened up a lot about the idea of being with other men. Initially her biggest hang up was if I love her how could I enjoy seeing her with another man. She worked through and understands that her pleasure is something that makes it such a turn on for me. Her one concern is that - what if after she does it and I enjoy it, that she holds it against me that I enjoyed it? Not sure if that makes sense. Almost sounds as if she’s in to it but then sort of afraid her emotions afterwards will make her upset with me that I loved it. As if her initial hang up (if I love her how could I enjoy it?) will resurface. Any advice or thoughts on this??