Thought I would express my wife's 1st small step.

I 41m told my wife 43f about sharing her ages ago. She had always said no and would not entertain it. In the last year she agreed to share pictures and videos etc... Online and chat to other men via messages.

Not that long ago I found out she had been sexting guys behind my back and not telling me she had done it. Which yes did annoy me as she was meant to show and tell me.

Anyway. She is slowly coming round a bit. Last weekend we went out for a meal. She went to the toilet and sent me a pic from her phone of the sexy lace bodysuit she had on which I didn't know about. When she came back her nipples were poking through her dress. Everyone could see them. Later after the meal before we left I stood up and she was still sat down. I looked down at her and she lifted her dress up to reveal her underwear. Flashing me and whoever else saw.

When I asked her about it later I asked how she felt about and she said excited.

Hopefully as she now understands how exciting things could be there will be more of it. Just need her to take the next step on.