Hi everyone! I’m looking for advice on how to navigate cleanliness and health with potential partners. My husband and I have been open for about 6 years, but I recently was diagnosed with lupus, an autoimmune disorder, which means I need to be especially cautious about my health and can’t afford to get sick.

It’s essential for me to ensure that any potential partners are disease-free. I want to communicate this clearly without discouraging people from wanting to connect, as I worry about possible stigmas around autoimmune conditions.

How do you all approach these conversations? What are some effective ways to discuss health and safety while still being inviting? Any tips or experiences would be greatly appreciated!

Thank you!

Edit to add: any tips on asking about exclusivity would also be appreciated!