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I like to film anonymously. How and when to bring it up to potential thirds?
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My husband and I have a shared kink for filming. We donā€™t post the videos anywhere, but it is an important part of our dynamic, so itā€™s something we donā€™t really budge on with thirds. How and when would I bring this up when talking to new people? I donā€™t want to scare them away or open the floodgates to them acting overtly sexual before weā€™ve gotten a chance to acquaint ourselves, but if I wait too long then I waste all our time if they arenā€™t open to it. Do any of you have similar experience or suggestions? Thank you!

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I have a whole list complied on my notes on my phone of ā€œthings to knowā€ (this is where I add we like to record) ā€œrulesā€ ā€œturn onsā€ ā€œhard nos/turn offs/limits.ā€ Itā€™s been very helpful because it answers a lot of questions I get asked repeatedly and this way I donā€™t forget anything. But to answer your question I bring it up when the conversation heads toward what weā€™re looking for. The first guy we played with liked to be recorded and didnā€™t mind at all.

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