I’ve posted before and mentioned that I had told my wife about my “dreams” she said I’m awkward and wierd. Haven’t mentioned it since. She did talk to friends about it and her friend was apparently into having a side bf.

Over the next few months there may be opportunity to bring it up or get her to explore:

My birthday is next week - doing a dinner/date night.

Solo trip- she’s going on a solo trip to Central America for work / she doesn’t know anyone at this work trip (I’ve hinted she should find someone to hangout with) she’s adding on two days at the end by herself.

Thailand: we’re going on a family trip to Thailand she’s been before and mentioned going to sex shows, asked if i wanted to go to a ladyboy show (I’ve never been to Thailand, she suggested we leave the kids with in-laws for a night and go out)

I don’t want her to think I’m wierd but wanted to know if these present any opportunities to bring it up again?