Hi! Not new to the lifestyle, we’ve been in for over 10 years, but usually hubby and I do everything together. I rarely ever do solo dates and only with guys we’ve already got an established relationship with.

That being said, I’m terrified of going to meet someone. But what keeps crossing my mind is, I’d be perfectly ok with going if I could completely hide my face from the encounter. Like, if I could just send my body, I’d be fine.

Is that normal? And no, being blindfolded wouldn’t be enough… 😅 after over 10 years in the lifestyle you’d think this wouldn’t be an issue, but it’s actually getting worse. (And no, has nothing to do with me getting older.)