Hi everyone!

My husband and I are exploring the hotwife lifestyle, and we're particularly interested in finding long-term bulls who can be relatively exclusive. We want to ensure that any potential partner understands our dynamic and respects our boundaries.

I’d love to hear your advice on:

1. Finding the right bulls: What strategies have worked for you in finding someone who aligns with your values and needs?
2. Establishing boundaries: How do you approach discussions about boundaries without making it feel overly complicated or like too much work? Any tips on keeping the conversation open and positive?
3. Communication: What practices do you use to ensure everyone stays on the same page?

Thanks in advance for your insights! We’re excited to learn from your experiences.