Over the past couple years my wife and I have been on and off about this. well several months ago we discussed actually taking the next step, we bought one of this small silicone male torso dildos and did some stuff with that and then she was chatting with people online which went from sexting on some social media to chatting and eventually video. well this training event came up for work and she is spending a week in another state. well she left today and I helped her pack the condoms and she has several of her toys. she is on here way to the hotel. from what it sounds like is she just plans on hanging out and meeting someone and if it goes that way then great. she also took the laptop so she will definitely be doing more video chat and playing with her toys. if this happens this will be her first time having sex with someone other then me.