I've been thinking about this for 2 or 3 years now, and I like the idea of seeing my wife with someone else in bed at least once in my life. Previously, I discussed the idea with my wife about her having sex with someone else in my presence, and she accepted it as an idea. I aske her several times, and she responded with: "I like the idea, I would try it, it's a new experience, and I'm curious!" We often talked about what she would do in my presence, how she would act with him, and she would tell me how she would behave. I often teased her that maybe she wouldn't be able to satisfy him or handle it, and she would tell me that she would satisfy him and manage it. From this, I bought her a dildo, and we sometimes used it, and she would sometimes play with it in my presence. However, after a night we spent playing with the dildo, the next day I asked her if she still liked the idea and if she was ready for us to find someone real. She initially responded, "Maybe yes, I don't know," and I told her she had time to think about it and respond to me. After 2 days of talking, she told me: "You've changed; can we just be the two of us, no more fantasies? That night with the dildo, you were completely different, much more passionate, and I had never seen you like that before. I think this would harm our relationship/marriage, I have a bad feeling about it. What do you like about seeing me with another man? It doesn't seem normal to me. I just want us to be the two of us and enjoy each other, etc." Since that night, I haven't talked about this topic again. I want your opinion on whether I should bring up this topic again or if I should finally keep it to myself? What do you suggest I do?