So two years to the month, from what started as a tease when she was out of town visiting her sister, from me encouraging her to download an app and flirt with men, to tonight. Our journey has been long. Lots of trial and error. Communication. More communication. Rules. Boundaries. So many failed attempts and even more trial and error we have arrived. Also did I mention the trial and error which mostly consisted of pic collectors, guys totally not cheating on their wives, and guys who just wanted to get off and not make it about her?

Tonight my wife is going out with a guy for the second time. The first was essentially a meet and greet after weeks of flirting, which led to some kissing, making out, and touching. Now, all bets are seemingly off. I am not sure if me having my first adventure with another woman a month ago helped prepare her or not, but it definitely opened more doors for us, sexually speaking. Here’s to hoping for the same results or more tonight.

I have a lot of thoughts racing through my head and I go back and forth from excited to nervous. She is the same. As much as we are planners and plan for what will happen and then plan after, this is something we both agree we won’t know how we will feel until after. Will the fantasy be better than the reality? Will the reality be better than the fantasy? Only time will tell.