Before I begin, I want to state I'm not making fun or trying to insult anyone. What I'm about to say comes with years of experience being a single male. I've swung with great couples, and not so great couples but because of that I know what I want and what works! These are best tips I can give so you can swing better as a couple!

1. Take better pictures - Did you take a close up shot of your wife's vagina with nothing else in the picture? Did you take a picture of your wife while she was unaware cleaning or bending over? I get messages asking, "would you fuck her?" and it's the most unflattering picture a husband could ever take. Get a photographer or look at the other kinds of pictures couples take and learn.

2. Don't be low effort with your messaging - This goes hand in hand with #1. I get messages from couples that ask, "would you fuck my wife?". Of course, there's no picture and the profile is completely blank. You're asking me a question about someone I haven't seen before

3. Is she into it as much as you are? The couples I've had the most success with were couples who BOTH wanted something out of this. I usually avoid couples where the male is too excited and wants to get the sex over with. Most women NEED a connection with the man who's going to literally be inside their body. The kind of couple I love is the one in which I talk to BOTH partners until we end up meeting. Chemistry is way more successful in these situations

4. Practice quality over quantity and get tested! I avoid couples that ask me to come over and have bareback sex without even asking me my status. I get tested every three months and I always make sure the couple I'm playing with know their status. Most men on here will absolutely lie about their status just so they can have sex.

5. Be patient. It takes times finding a good couple OR single male but if you maintain a standard and are more selective you will find more success

Once again, this is not meant to insult ANYONE just provide advice

Have fun swinging!