This has been going on for the better part of 5 or 6 months now, Ive always been very "descriptive" in my dirty talking and role playong during sex, thinking if i can paint the picture in her head, she can visualize it better. Earlier this year, i let her in on my Hotwife Fantasy and she literally shut the door on it immediately, i couldnt even discuss it with her, I didnt press about it in an annoying way, but would bring it up in "the heat of the moment" during sex while we were using her various toys, I started naming them and it then turned into various hotwife topics we would roleplay with, again, being very descriptive, painting that picture, to the point of even roleplaying her being at a concert flirting and grinding against a stranger, all while i had the live verson of a group playing in the background just to make that vizualization that much more real to her.... This went in for a few months to where she even started bringing it up during sex before i would... Finally admitting it was a turn on for her too.... Then, she let it slip that part of her "kink" was the jealousy aspect, asking if id be jealous, of course I would i told her... the emotional rollercoaster is part of the appeal, watching you with another man would make me so jealous but turned on at the same time and almost a drug like effect... the conversation recently turned into her having a boyfriend or a regular FWB she could see on a regular basis and I mentioned id be happy for her... the butterflies in her stomach from a new relationship, the excitement of going on a date with a new boyfriend and getting to know them, her realizing she is still desirable and sexy... its all i could ever want is for her to experience all those feelings again.... after telling her that, she dragged me into the bedroom and we had the best sex we had ever had.... i started sending her sexy little clips while she is at work, of women having sex with other men while their spouse watched and she admitted to being turned on by those and actually responds to them now... finally sending videos recently of girls having sex with guys and recording themselves and i mentioned id love to get a video like this from her about an hour or so after i was expecting her home from work.... and she melted.... her only hang up during all this... is even during the "role playing", video sharing and dirty talk... she has to keep inserting "for conversation only, she will never do it".... and thats the most frustrating part about it... She has come so far... from learning about my desire for it... to fantasizing about it.... to watching video clips about it... to participating in the conversation and more... Do you think we are headed in the right direction? Do you think she will Ever give in to her own desires and fantasy for this? or will it always just be the hot topic in bed?