I've been swinging off and on as a single male since 2012 which means I've got lots and lots of advice for dudes trying to get into the game. Problem is, I've seen so many low effort dudes filling up hotwife subs with dick pics and low effort attitudes. Believe it or not 'I" get messages from single men thinking I'm a woman or couple because they don't bother to read my profile before contacting me. Because of that I'm going to put down the best tips I've learned over the years.

1. Stop taking awful pictures. Dick pics and shots of you standing in a dirty room will do NOTHING to help you find a quality couple. You need to SELL yourself. That means taking GOOD full body pics with a clean background.

2. Stop being low effort. Sending a 'hey" message or having a blank profile won't get you ANY attention guys. Let the person you're contacting know who you are when you contact them. Fill your message with meaning and a picture

3. Read the profile of the person you're contacting. I usually post videos of me with a hotwife and I'll get messages from single men saying "hey baby" or a dick picture. Read the profile of the person you're contacting and who knows, maybe you'll find something to actually engage with them about.

4. Don't reply to a post with "message me". This goes back to the low effort advice. If a couple is getting lots of messages (which always happens) don't reply to their post asking them to contact you.

5. No dumb comments like "I'm next". A quality hotwife is not some tied up animal waiting to be used by the next man in line. While there are couples out there who like that, the majority of them are not looking for anyone to play with them

If I can think of any other tips I will post them but understand this post is not meant to insult you. It's only meant to help with your game. I'll be writing one for couples next so stay tuned!