This is kind of an update following on from the rest, but also is kind of a general journey post too.

Our venture into this lifestyle has been slow and steady over a couple of years from when I first brought it up to today. When I first brought it up it was a hard no IRL and faced with her reaction I never thought it would go anywhere. We kept chatting about it off and on and trying various things to see what worked/what didn’t, and through all that I never realistically thought we’d find a way for us to move forward and I was very open and honest about that being ok and this kink is not a need-to-have, it’s a nice-to-have.

Well, since we met this guy shes been chatting with in person, everything has changed. Her sex drive is through the roof and she really really REALLY wants this to happen - like, a “how quickly can we make this happen” kind of enthusiasm I’ve never seen before. And now she’s outright told me that this is 100% a fantasy/kink of hers too. She said she “gets it now”.

I asked what got her over the line and she said that there’s this guy who she had an online rapport with, who she found sexy, and he was exactly like he was online, in real life. And she’s sexually attracted to him but just as secure in her attraction and love for me and our relationship, and when we had drinks there was a moment where she was sat in between me and him with a hand on each of our laps and she said that just felt super sexy.

We meet up with him Friday for the final pre-hotel meet-up x