Wife and I are still new to this lifestyle and our first major activity (aside from her chatting with guys online) was to go to a sex club. Not sure if it's really a sex club or a swinger's club but it's a club here in Toronto where half of the area is a dance floor and socials and the other half is for play (private rooms, dungeon, glory hole, orgy room, etc.).

I was surprised that my wife agreed to it but to temper my expectations, we both decide on what to expect. For me, I would like to try same room sex with other couples which I think can be a gauge before you want to fully commit to play with others. For her, she just wants to dance and flirt with the men in the dance floor. She wore this simple dark mini bodycon dress that emphasized her butt, no bra and a tiny g-string. Sexy and playful look, not slutty.

The club allowed single males that night but unfortunately, not a lot of good options for my wife to choose from. The dance floor wasn't that packed but it wasn't empty either. At first she just wants to dance with me, sexy dance, grinding, and she enjoyed the stared. There's this one ok-looking guy at the bar who kept staring and she just kept on teasing. I told her I need to go to the bathroom. She sat on a couch by herself while waiting but the guy didn't approach her.

I came back and I told her we should check out the play area. Lots of couples going at it already at that time. We took off our clothes, put them in the locker, and went in with just towels. At first we just sat at a couch and enjoyed the sights and sounds of couples fucking and playing. We started making out and once hard, we moved to the orgy room with this huge bed (maybe six queens). There was already a foursome going at it and we just picked a spot and did our thing.

The sight of other people fucking and sucking, and the moans and the grunts elevated the experience for me. It was also great that my wife can let loose and be loud in that environment, something we can't do at home. We didn't get to play with others nor got approached by anybody but it was fine. We discovered that we can perform in that setting and even enjoy being seen while having sex.

We dressed and my wife wanted to go dancing again afterwards. I said i'll just sit and watch her. Off she went to the dance floor by herself. The guy who was staring was dancing with this girl but when he saw my wife on her own, he beckoned her to join them. I gave her my approval and off she went. It was hot! Her doing her sexy dance/grind to another man, and another girl also grinding on her. The guy was slightly touching her everywhere (boobs, waist, butt, pussy) while dancing and I enjoyed watching her.

After a few moment, she asked me to join them... or so I thought. Turns out she wanted to leave. We said goodbye and left. Going to the parking, she told me that she couldn't take the guy's odor anymore. 😄 At first, she didn't mind the touching but as it went on, his odor was overwhelming her senses and it wasn't enjoyable anymore.

Anyway, we both had a good time and plan on doing it again. She said it could also be a nice place to get to know a third or to meet a third that we find online. At the very least, she can socialize with the third and he can enjoy a dance with her. And if things go really well, we can go to a private room in the play area.

If you're new to the lifestyle or unsure how to start, going to a sex club might be something you would like to consider.