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Am I wrong? Should I give him another chance?
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Hereā€™s the gist. I need advice on whether or not I was too harsh on a potential new submissive cuck.

As you all know dating can be very taxing and stressful especially dating within the lifestyle. Iā€™m a young aspiring cuckoldress and wannabe hotwife. Itā€™s been EXTREMELY hard to find a man that I am compatible with and I am still in the process of finding that someone. Last week I was DMā€™d on Fetlife by someone asking to take me out and talk more about potentially being my submissive cuck. We talked for a few days and exchanged IG accounts. Now that weā€™ve moved the conversation to IG we delve a bit deeper into what weā€™re were looking for. We talk for the week and we planned to meet up today for lunch.

In the DMā€™s he gives off the energy that he wants to top from the bottom. He would text me things that are hinting at the things he wants me to do him and we havenā€™t even met yet. Iā€™m not sure if itā€™s because heā€™s inexperienced or itā€™s because heā€™s not a real sub cuck, Iā€™m leaning towards the ladder. For example, we were texting and when I was telling him directions for planning the date and how the date would go one of his response were ā€œIā€™m just glad youā€™re not forcing me to be in chastity or wear panties.ā€ When that wasnā€™t what we were talking about and we havenā€™t even met yet. Basically he would be doing a bit too much but not too much for it to be a red flag.

The date was scheduled for 3pm, but at 1 pm he messaged me telling me that he wonā€™t be able to make it. I asked him how so and he tells me that something was wrong with his car. I then tell him thatā€™s unfortunate and that I was looking forward to meet him. Now, for context he is a submissive, so his next response was ā€œhow can I make it up to you.ā€ My next reponse to him was ā€œ I find it distasteful to cancel a date a few hours before and that I am not keen on rescheduling the date.ā€

Hereā€™s where my dilemma comes from with not wanting to reschedule

1: I know life happens but it definitely puts a bad taste in my mouth when someone cancels a date very close to the date time.

2: Iā€™ve been in the LS for a while and flaking is SO common. I think if you canā€™t make it to the first date, that isnā€™t a good sign.

3: I find him to be too eager. I think heā€™s one of those flakes that like to talk about their fantasies with people online and lead them on. I donā€™t want to be lead on and get my hopes up.

So when he canceled today I decided I didnā€™t want to give him another chance because I think itā€™s not worth it.

When he said how can I make this up to you I didnā€™t respond. What was I supposed to say?

Do you think I was too harsh?

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