Hello everyone!

We are a couple, both 40. We have been interested in this lifestyle for many years now.

To get started we shared pictures of both of us on a platform and had lots of fun. Lots of virtual fun. The fantasy began to grow more on her as she understood that i was not trying to get her in to it just for me to have fun with other women, or because i was tired of her. She understood i would enjoy her enjoying her sexual side with other men.

Then as time went by, she admitted it had become a huge fantasy for her. So we created a profile on the same platform just for her to show off and flirt.

She had luck and found a few guys that she was interested in. They also started chatting on other platforms and with one of them, she really made a connection. They started sexting from time to time, turning us both on. When she started sexting him she made clear it would not be more than that and this guy was completely fine with that. Not pushy at all.

Recently she admitted to me, and to him, that she had changed her mind, that things could be more than virtual.

Everyone is happy with this. But here comes our question.

Can anyone tell us how to make that last step to meet and (probably maybe) play?

We have heard about the “get a coffee” type of solutions but wanted to hear from experience others.

Thanks for reading all this and thanks for your time.