My wife and I a few months ago started "playing". We talked about my fantasy of watching her with another man and even one time had sex as she described what she would do sexually to another man. One night shortly after when we were fooling around I tried to "play" with her about her and another man together when she didn't want to. That turned her off to the thought of doing anything more. Now she's pregnant and our sex is few far and in-between because of some complications with the pregnancy. Every time we do have sex though I feel it's not the right time to bring up trying to play again because I want/ feel we need to focus on us. My question is, once we get back to having sex regularly that I feel like maybe I could bring it back up, how do I go about it without seeing overbearing or needy (for lack of a better word)?