Background: married 27 years and both of us are vanilla. I have always had fetish of wife sharing and threesome fantasy (MFM). I have brought it up over the years, but quickly shot down by wife. However, we do role play and use toys, and she really enjoys that. We did have a rough patch 10 years ago, and she had an affair and we split up for 6 months, but reconciled and have had great relationship since then. FWIW, I was a real asshole prior to affair and emotionally distant. Someone from work (ordinarily not her type) swooped in and spoke her love language and built her up, and the affair started.

Over past few months, I have been bringing up hotwife scenario more often, including during regular conversations. She was still against it, but more intrigued as time went on. I gave her the book “The Faithful Hotwife” and she enjoyed it and we talked more about role playing and games. She started reading literotica specifically regarding hotwife and really got into it. I booked her a sensual yoni massage and she agreed to just be in the moment and see what happens. Well, he brought her to orgasm multiple times and before I knew it, she was giving him a handjob and then a blowjob. I was in the room with her, and it was fucking hot!

That seemed to open the flood gates. She wanted to sign up for dating sites to flirt, but still insisted that it was just for fun and she didn’t expect it to go beyond that. Lo and behold, we found an awesome guy nearby who is in an ENM and has served as a bull for hotwives. He is very genuine, kind, and honest. We met him last week at a public place, and everyone got along great. She said that she don’t really feel a spark, so didn’t think she would want to go through with sex, but was willing to do petting and maybe oral.

Well, during ongoing texting with him, she sent a picture of her tits to him. (All communication is on app and completely transparent). He responded with a picture of his cock, and OMG it is huge. I am slightly above average at 6.5 inches, but his is much larger. She has always liked playing with large dildos and one of her exes was big. Let me tell you, she went from apprehensive and just willing to do petting to full on wanting to fuck right now. It was like a switch. Her sexual appetite is now insatiable, and she wants to do this asap.

I think it is so hot, but do worry that she will become intoxicated with his huge cock and drift away from me. I’m usually quite confident, but her sudden change kinda threw me for a loop.

He is totally committed to his wife and does this with her blessing. The only red flag I have seen is him talking about dating my wife from time to time. Not sure I’m keen on that. I’m fine with sex and sharing, but not for dating.

Thoughts?