Been together for 25 years and I’ve always had fantasies of sharing and watching my wife with others, but it never progressed beyond talk and role play with toys. She always gave the typical response that it is just a fantasy and she could never do it in real life. Basically, we should be satisfied with each other and definitely could not wrap her head around me only wanting her to play and not me.

I have been much more vocal about my desires and have told her in no uncertain terms that she can do as much or as little as she wants with whoever she wants, as long as there is open communication. I do not expect reciprocity and my passion would be to see her being pleasured, and joining in.

I bought her the book “The Faithful Hotwife” and she read it, and seemed more accepting of things as long as they don’t involve actually fucking someone else. We have had some awesome sex lately while acting out fantasies of sex with stranger and her being pleasured by a big cock. She loves playing and cums multiple times when using her big dildo, while becoming quite vocal. Basically, she loves the scenario but just can’t bring herself to accept doing it in real life.

She really loves watching women get off during massages, and I was able to find someone on Reddit who will provide FBSM with yoni massage. She got so hot and worked up talking about this. I asked her if she was ok being massaged to orgasm while I watched and she said yes. I asked her if she might touch him and give him a hand job, and she was ok with that as well. She wasn’t too keen on oral and a hard no for actual sex. However, when she gets sexually aroused, she typically loses all restraint and wants to fuck. I will be in the room with her, and I’m hoping this scenario allows her to break past stigmas and that she truly sees that there are no strings attached.