Hubby here M28.

I've already talked to my girlfriend about my fantasies of sharing her with other men, we've been turning each other on with this idea for several months, she also told me it was her fantasy and that she also fantasized about a 3-way with another girl or a 4-way with other couples.

But to tell you the problem, apart from sexual intercourse she blamed me for her fantasies, she felt guilty for having them, but above all she made me feel very guilty for having her fantasies, she thought that I didn't love her and that I didn't consider her, it was an endless conversation for several months, or finally she understood after reassuring her that they were purely desires that I wanted to share with her because I love her and she excites me terribly.

For example, 6 months ago we had our first exhibitionist experience, once on an apartment boat, parked in a harbor with other boats surrounding us, With a little alcohol, we started to make love, watching voyeurs pull up on the street in front of the harbor, one of them jerking off while watching us, which excited us enormously (that was 6 months ago).

And 2 weeks ago we had our second exhibitionist experience where she sucked me off on her knees in the car, me in front of the door, standing up, being sucked off and looking at the horizon with passers-by who might be coming our way, it was very exciting, she got out of the car, kneeling in the grass and I came on her face, she kept my cum all the way home.

This week I put 4 fingers in her for the first time, her pussy is very tight, and she has never been so spread as at that moment, she had an incredible orgasm, and I thought about the fact that she had a big cock in her pussy at that moment...

A few days ago she sucked me on our balcony, she loves being outside it excites her a lot.

And this evening she said to me "I'd like us to go out in nature soon, somewhere half public and half private to do lots of naughty things, it turns me on when we're out together, and what do you feel like doing?

Me : ""It also turns me on enormously all those moments outside that we had, it gave me a lot of fantasies."

She: "oh yes, tell me which ones I'd like to know".

At that moment the phone rang, urgently I said go for something not very cool but now it's settled.

My question: As I said before, she was reluctant, and we haven't talked about our fantasies of including other people in our sex life for 2 months. Is it time to talk to her again about these fantasies? If so, how can I best put it to her so that this time the discussion is constructive?

Clarification: I don't want to be humiliated, I just want to share my wife, to see her seduce other men, to show her off, to see her take and give pleasure to other men (and vice versa, it would turn me on if she wanted to share me too).

Thank you very much for your future answers.