This is one of my favorite icebreakers for when a couple introduces a third partner into the mix. It happens in a chat but is suitable for those planning real-life meetings and for those interested in virtual role-play only.

So, you've found a potential partner with whom you'd like to take things to the next level. Create a group chat for the three of you.

Start by discussing casual topics that engage everyone. For instance, if you're planning a vacation and your friend is familiar with the destination, talk about that. Or choose any other topic. Take your time and avoid steering the conversation towards sexual themes prematurely; it will naturally become more heated in due time.

A few days later, when the chat has been forgotten, she goes shopping. She comes across a lingerie store, picks out a set she likes, tries it on in the fitting room, and snaps a mirror selfie.
Then, she sends it to her partner, intending to ask for his opinion, but "accidentally" sends it to the group chat with their friend instead. (For safety, make sure her face isn't visible.)

Both men become super excited and start flirting with her, creating a light-hearted atmosphere. They compliment her, tease her, and encourage her to try on bolder outfits.

Why do I think this ice-breaker is great, especially for newbies?

• It starts small, allowing you to progress at your comfort level, gradually turning up the heat. She might start with a conservative outfit and choose more daring ones if she likes the reaction of both men and feels good about it.
• In the group chat with her husband, she can gauge his reactions, feel his support, and even let him take the lead.
• This scenario can be incredibly erotic for both partners, offering a very realistic experience when she undresses in front of her partner and a third. And the presence of her husband will make it especially hot.
• Most likely, it will lead to incredible sex as soon as she returns home 😅

Give it a try 😀