I understand many people have their own dynamics and blah blah for the most part hotwifing is meant for a woman to go out and have her fun. Husband can choose to be there but that's more of a cuckold deal. However my wife went and met a guy on SLS had a few certs and he seemed cool. Passed him to my wife through kik and she said he was acting weird saying she was acting nervous when she wasn't acting nervous in the slightest. Then he kept asking her if she wanted to cancel cause he knows she afraid but she kept asking about what time he would arrive cause it was getting late and he wasn't arriving. All he said was "I'll tell you when I'm on my way" pretty asshole. So it was getting too late and my wife decided to call it off cause it was the second time he said something but didn't do it. And she was left alone with no plans. She proceeds to find an app I believe called HUB and finds a young stud who was willing to come over that night. Smaller penis but very cool and relaxed ended up doing a great job with pictures and videos for me and I monitored them through cameras in the place to make sure it was all going well I wasn't far. After he left me and my wife had an amazing conversation and AMAZING sex. Basically what I am getting at is you will go through PLENTY of flakes and weirdos and even assholes. Don't settle for less. Let the woman take the wheel and where she is most comfortable she will most be satisfied. My question is. Have yall had experiences where the bigger the dick the more of an asshole the bull can be? Like why can't you be relaxed normal and maybe a little funny. Instead of dickish. You are a guy with a big dick not a bigger punch. Relax.