My wife and I have been long discussing the reality of her going out and flirting, kissing and ultimately inviting a guy back to our hotel room. I know it takes time and communication along with heavy amounts of trust amongst us for us to take even the smallest step forward. We both love the idea of her being flirtatious and we both also love the idea of a mfm threesome. However, she does not think that when I first witness another guy hitting on her, or their hands on her in anyway that I’ll be able to handle the emotions, and I’ll either step in and “puff my chest out” or that it’ll make me regret ever acting on it.

So for the husbands who have even taken the smallest of steps, whether it be letting your wife flirt and get handsy at a bar, or gone the full thing and had a threesome, how were the emotions that you encountered? How hard was it to handle, and did you feel any regret once you crossed the point of no going back?

My wife is a very attractive blonde and there will be no shortage of men shooting their shot, so I’m just curious what it is like before we possibly try our first night out next weekend.