Hi guys, we are a mid age couple from Western Europe and trying to get into the LS. Below is the text I have responded to a fellow redditor’s thread on another sub. Since it seems to be one of the hot topics for couples like as trying to get into the lifestyle I am copying the message below. Happy to have your feedbacks. We are in a similar situation, my wife’s ex just before me was one of her best fucks. They dated for a year than they remained in an undiscussed FWB situation for another year. In between she would date other guys but when those didn’t work this guy would always find his way back between her legs. When we first met 18 years ago we hooked up for a few days but we lived in different countries. It was amazing but nothing about being exclusive was discussed due to the circumstances. It was 3 months later when i flew to visit her that we went exclusive. So even in this period they had amazing sex couple of times with this guy. ( there is one story on the kitchen counter i find very hot) i have been very open about my hotwife desires right from the beginning with her and she always played along and enjoyed the idea. Now 18 years and 3 kids later we are at a stage where we want to make fantasy a reality. I have been chatting with dozens of guys here and we visited few swingers clubs. When push comes to shove we somehow cannot take plunge. i reckon, the environment in a swingers club or having to meet a total stranger is intimidating for her. We have been going over their sex details quite often recently during sex. I like the comparisons she gives me. They were on a friendly basis the first few years of our relationship even had dinners and drinks here and there.Than both of them being married having kids etc life kicked in and they had no contact the last 10-12 years. She will be spending the easter holidays in her country with the kids and i have to work. I am encouraging her to contact him to have a lunch and see where it goes.