Afew weeks ago an ex from 5 years ago randomly reached out to wife on fb messenger. I don't know why now but she of course said a ton of hateful untrue things about me One of those being i was a homosexual gay and prefer it up the ass. Now I do like a buttplug at times and even said once I'd clean her up after an experience but I do not feel that makes me gay. My wife and I are still very new to the hotwife lifestyle, we have talked about it during pillow talk often, she had one experience over the last year, However the other day i asked her during sex what she was thinking. Then asked if she was thinking about sex with the new guy she just talked to on the phone just afew hours earlier.
She immediately said why do you want me to think of another man and if Im gay since I want her to think of him and not me while we are having intercourse.. I natural was taken back and shocked she was saying this but disappointed on why she is thinking all this. Thoughts?