So, a few years ago I told my wife about my fantasy of her being a hotwife, at first this news wasn’t taken we’ll in fairness I don’t think I explained my thoughts behind it.

Skip forward some years and we are now in a position where she likes the fantasy idea of it, she understands my reasoning and lust for this to happen.

She doesn’t want to take the plunge and thinks she’ll never be able to act on the fantasy as that’s what she sees it as. My honest opinion is that’s fine, it has to be something we would both want and I’ll always go at her speed!

I’ve said it’s not the destination, it’s the journey, and if it never happens then it never happens, but I’m just happy to be in the position that I’m in where I can talk about anything and everything with her, I don’t want to do this journey with anyone else and respect her too much to push something that would lose her!

Anyway, recently my wife has opened up about liking the fantasy, she’s role played with me, dressed up sexy when going out, wearing a skirt with nothing in underneath, taken photos and posted them online and some other things.

I’ve suggested a few things that would be hot and she seems to be wanting to try them, something where the fantasy can be explored without actually physically doing something with someone else.

One of these things is to have a dirty chat, exchange of photos and talk with someone online, we can read the messages together and feel it would be super hot! The advice we’re looking for is, how or where to we go for this? Ideally she’d need to see the other persons face and body to see if there is an attraction otherwise it wouldn’t be hot and most likely a turn off if the guy in the other end didn’t float her boat in some way,

We don’t want to give out our location and don’t really want to post face pictures ourselves in fear of either being recognised, any advice would be great :)