I’ve either been attracting men that try and run the show and basically want to treat me like a whore they don’t have to pay for, or it’s the exact opposite, there are guys who develop feeling and we need to stop talking. I (the wife) like to have some kinky fun where I’m in a more submissive role, even free use fantasies, but I also need a certain level of respect and connection from my third.
For example: I’d love to find someone who can facefuck me until I have tears running down my face, then grab me by the throat, make out with me passionately, while finger fucking me until I cum, then tell me how gorgeous I look.
Am I crossing too many wires with this ask? I can’t seem to find the right balance, or am I coming off as confusing? Is this hard for a guy to understand maybe? Just getting such a mix of men from one end of the spectrum to the other end. Am I asking for too much??? 😩
I think it's a porn influence and that these men don't have a basic respect for other people generally. They see these extreme characterisations of what a dominant man should be in porn, add it with their basic lack of respect and experience with women, coupled with a lack of humanity and compassion for other people's feelings, and viola, you have the type of man you're experiencing.
Just my two cents worth.
I think these guys are trying too hard to be a dominant man, and don't realise they can switch out of that character to be a better human.
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