Wife here. Despite the username we’ve not yet brought someone else into our relationship. This has always been his thing and I was not into it at all but we talked and fantasised and I’ve spoken on apps n text to a few guys and one guy I met made me realise I wasn’t just ready to have a purely sexual fling, but I was also excited to do something purely sex based and do it with this hot guy I met.

This guy recently stopped replying to my messages after seeming so keen. I think it’s because we have kids n work n life and I’m not there messaging him every day and feeding him sexy messages and pics all the time. I don’t mind it so much because he’s the one that made me really want to start doing this - be a vixen, even if it’s just once to try it out.

My husband has been a bit quiet on it lately because he doesn’t want to appear overly keen (keener than he has always been at least 🤣) and he doesn’t want to push me or nag me about it. I’ve also been quiet on it but it does cross my mind once or twice every day or other day.

My question is, what can I do to, almost “jump start” or “fire up” our mutual flame for this in a way that will pleasantly surprise him and make for a really erotic and highly sexually charged conversation/sexy evening?

Looking to hear from vixens/hotwife’s and male other halves too please

I know for a fact (because we talk openly often) that he’s not dwindling on it and nor am I - I actually want this for myself and my own fun now, something that he audibly and physically shows that he loves hearing.

T xx