Just wondering if any of you ever lose interest in sharing your wife? I tried to convince my wife to be a hotwife for a long time. Then we found the right guy, had our first mfm and it was awesome. We both loved it. It boosted our sex life, made us feel closer, all of the expected benefits with no regrets or negative emotions. So we have done it a few more times with the same guy and a couple others.

Somewhere along the way it just kind of stopped being exciting. Seems like once we checked all the boxes, tried everything I wanted to try, now I’m just kind of indifferent about it. Now I feel like “been there, done that, not that exciting anymore.”

My brain still says it’s cool and we should keep going, but my sex drive is just kind of “meh” doesn’t really make me that excited anymore. It’s hard to describe how I feel. There’s still no regret or jealousy or anything negative. I still love my wife more than ever and there’s no relationship issues.

I’m having a tough time figuring this one out.