So it’s been a fantasy of mine for a while and we’ve now just had the “chat” where she basically told me to send her some Reddit stuff and let her research cuckolding and what it might bring.

She’s curious about logistics and how it all might work - secrecy, friends/work colleagues not finding out etc and most importantly how to find a guy.

So my question is - what should our next steps be? We’ve been together 5 years and we’re both adamant that we want to find someone decent. I’m 31 and she’s 27.

Any advice is most welcome and I’m all about this being her leading this rather than just going along with something I want. She’s very hot and it’s been hot to see her seemingly warming to the idea!