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How can I build up my gf’s confidence and encourage her to explore her sexuality more? Long post, sorry. Pt 2. Huge updates.
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This is a follow up to my last post from a few days ago, it is on my profile if you wish to read it! Last night was the single best night of our kink life yet! I made her dinner, and we had been hitting the alcohol pretty hard at this point, so we were all loose and spilling everything to each other. It all started with New Year’s resolutions, and I decided to make a sexual one as well. For me, I do not want to have a single orgasm this year that isn’t either from her or allowed by her. For her, be willing to try out new things and explore a new side of herself (admittedly I chose this for her but she loved it!). For us as a couple, communicate communicate communicate (fantasies, wants, needs, ideas both sexual and non) From there we just kept having a little pillow talk, and we started playing a game of what if. I.e. what if (insert hot guy) came up and started chatting with you, flirting, asking you to dance, etc. I admitted that I wanted more of some of the things we’ve tried in the past like chastity, and kept bringing up everything I thought to ask her, as she was all for it and in a talking mood. Then we some how porn got brought up, and my gf has always expressed her discomfort and distaste for porn, so imagine how shocked I was when she told me she wanted to watch the Kim K sex tape lol, she had never seen porn before and out of all the vids she chooses that one? I didn’t mind at all, especially since it has a black man with a big dick in it which is my fantasy for her like many others, but I just thought it was funny. Well anyways I obviously find the video and start playing it on our tv. As soon as she saw his cock and her sucking she immediately got turned on. She was shocked, amazed, confused, but getting very turned on. We watched the whole video just chatting about it the whole time. I even admitted to her that when I do watch porn, most of the time it is interracial. I told her this because of how turned on she was getting, and I asked if she wanted to watch another, but no judging, she said yes and that she would never. I put on one of my favorite videos, Kendra’s obsessions video pt1, we again sat there watching, but this time not much talking was happening, and about half way through the video she just grabbed me and started making out with me. I told her I wanted her to watch the video, so I started going down on her, and within 3 minutes she was having a leg shaking orgasm, she then to my surprise started sucking my dick, just until I was rock hard and ready to go, and then she hoped on and rode me harder than she ever has before. The alcohol kept from blowing to soon thankfully lol, but it was some of the hottest sex we have ever had! After the video I asked her what she liked so much about them, and she said she loves seeing women get turned on and this just solidified that for her. That caught me a little off guard, but nothing crazy. I then asked her about the huge dick on the screen, and she admitted with a big grin that she enjoy seeing those too! The girl that never watched porn and was disgusted at the thought of watching it is now saying that she loves seeing huge dicks and women getting turned on? I was absolutely amazed, confused, so turned on, ecstatic, all of it. We agreed we should do it again, and she admitted that maybe trying new things isn’t so bad after all! I am on an absolute high right now! This may seem like a very small step to some, but I feel like now that this hurdle has been crossed, a lot of doors can be opened. She has always been the absolute best gf, I could ask for and now she’s indulging my wild male ideas and fantasies! Obviously I’m still going to take it slow and just enjoy the small victory, but I think this is something we can really build off of in our sex life!

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