Husband and I are into both swinging and hotwifing. We've had sex with other couples, partaken in orgies, had threesomes with another girl, and with another man. For his 50th bday, I arranged for 3 women to blow him and then for one of our single swinger girlfriends to spend the night with us in bed.
Now, it's my 50th. He arranged a MFM encounter (for the record, he is 100% straight and absolutely not a cuckold; he totally participates and there is no M-M play). But, it didn't go real well. The other guy started out great - gave me fantastic oral, I came twice. Then I started to return the favor and he came in 30 seconds. After that, he couldn't get it up again. But he was a nice guy, so hubby and I agreed to give him a second chance. Same damn thing happened!
By then, my husband felt bad. He told me to go on SLS and find a guy, that we'd give this one more try. So I did. The guy I ended up clicking with was a black guy my same age. Very respectful, not proclaiming himself as a bull or anything. We had several chats via text and he seems intelligent and funny. So I decided to take the next step and set up a date for him to join us at a hotel room the week after New Year's. Once he agreed, I sent him a pussy pic to let him know I was excited.
He returned a pic of himself pulling his pants off and oh, wow, his dick was big. Really big. Like at least 8".
I am not a size queen at all. In fact, the couple of times I've been with someone over 7" it was uncomfortable, especially when the guy started going hard. I prefer between 6" and 7".
But, it's so hard to find a person you click with to play with who isn't a flake or asshole.
I asked my husband, and he said he's fine with it, he doesn't care about the size because he doesn't have to play with it. In his words, "Consider it a kind of bucket list item. You can cross off BBC and not have to do it again if you don't like it."
The thing is, I want to like it. It would suck if he turns out to be like other big cock guys and just doesn't know what to do with it except pile drive.
I sent him a message saying I don't usually play with dicks that size and he'll need to be gentle. He said he would, but we all know what people say and what actually happens are different things.
Now I'm gonna be nervous for a week!