That’s right! We’ve been married 10 years now, and starting around year 4 or 5 we started poking around the swinger scene. I found I had a bit of a hotwife kink, she found she can be a bit jealous. Our first attempts failed due to a lack of maturity on my part, communication on both of our parts, and a yeast infection misdiagnosed as HSV on her part. There was conflict, there was fighting, it was a tough one to work through but we did and we moved on without the Lifestyle.

Fast forward a few years and we’ve been having amazing sex, often using toys like cock sleeves and almost always involving some dirty talk. Our dirty talk has a man extremely noticeable affect on her and anytime I talk about “loaning her out” or reclaiming her in some way, she gets absolutely SOAKED.

Two nights ago she asked if watching her with another man is something I would actually like to do. Naturally that was a big YES, and we’ve been fucking like rabbits since.

Now that we’re through the back story, we’re trying to take a minimalist/natural type approach instead of browsing swinger ads and stuff as much as possible (knowing it’ll probably take making an ad to actually find someone

The question here is fairly general. Does anyone have a similar arrangement? What have you guys done that’s ended in success? Are there resources we should know about? How do we go about having this add to our sex life without it taking over?