You can check my posts, but basically I'm turned on by jealousy. I found this out when my wife suggested watching if I had performance anxiety for a MFM threesome. Anxiety was what I was insecure about. If an attractive stranger wanted me to fuck them in their car or bathroom stall I probably couldn't unless I was at that sweet spot of drunkenness between the anxiety and whiskey dick. Since that's what made me jealous that's basically what I told her to do. And I learned getting dick isn't as simple for women as I thought. Not in the real world. So I don't feel as insecure about that.

I decided on her just flirting and dressing where she's flashing guys some days if she bends over or reaches for anything. This gives me that jealousy and I was fine with that. But we were talking about a MFM again and just other men and women and she said some old guy was wanting to meet her this week.

So 1) it's from some app or website she was on, so there's not the idea of him doing anything I couldn't. 2) She's in her early 40's, and looks really good for her age, but this guy is significantly older. I wouldn't really even be interested in videos of them. 3) What she said he's into I don't really care about either.

But they're compatible in ways that we aren't. They're really both into blowjobs and I couldn't care less, along with other things. He's married which I see as a plus. Even if I don't feel threatened by him, if he was single I would always suspect her of seeing him as someone to fall back on if they were communicating with each other. With single guys I would want it to be through me. If I ever feel like that I can just have the wife and divorce lawyer straighten him out. Besides that, she's the one who's been talking to him and brought it up so there's some interest on her end. I told her it was up to her. I don't really care if there was anything sexual that happened but I think it has something to do with the dom/sub role playing game. 🤷

If this is why I'm fine with her doing it rather than getting off to the jealousy I feel like maybe I should feel guilty about not trying harder to accommodate her. I just think it's stupid. But then I think maybe part of it is his age. She didn't have a good relationship with her dad but I don't know if she would associate an old white man with her father. If she does this are there any legal issues to think about? Should something be notarized?