Hi. I’m into this but wife isn’t as much. She knows I’m a bit of a voyeur and have told her my thoughts but it’s been a quick conversation since I’m nervous to tell her how much I enjoy it. She always says that’s not my thing. Recently I told her to tell me stories of her random makeout sessions with strangers in bars when she was in college, which she used to do a lot. She does oblige my fantasy every once in awhile.

We both live in a small town but have large families, she in particular has a public facing job. She has a work trip away and couldn’t find any friends to go with her.

I was thinking of suggesting she join a dating app and flirt online while on her trip. I’m 99% sure she’ll say no.

But if she does say yes, what app could she use? We haven’t used dating apps since 2013. Something that allows her to stay anonymous unless she initiated the conversation. She’s super conservative so won’t send nudes (unless there’s something I don’t know about) I just want to be prepared in case she says yes. Otherwise I’ll have no idea and she won’t do it.