So my fiancee and I have been in the lifestyle for 3 years. The last 2 years we had taken a break to focus on our son and life. Recently we had opened up convos of her getting back in the game...

A little background, she had a regular fwb who she went on dates solo and then would send media throughout. Also had some other random hookups.

So as recent as 2 months ago, she let me know a guy at her work caught her eye. Most of what she described was tall, dark, and handsome. However sometimes things she would tell me about this guy he sounded like a douche. Mainly narcissist red flags.

Well there was light flirting until last week when I told her I was good with her engaging the coworker about hooking up. When she brought it up he gave her an excuse, that he had a date and seemed uninterested.

So last night at work he approached her and advised he wanted to respect that she has a man and she let him know of our arrangement. To that point he advised he would be interested but only if he got to see her 1 day a week. To which she replied, that's not how this works.

Basicallyyyyyy.... I am looking for some people's feedback as to should we pursue and try to be flexible with our potential fwb, or are my spidey senses true and we should find a different candidate??????

Thanks for any feedback