My wife is a hotwife, so I get to see a lot of the comments she gets when she's looking for guys. 90% of what she gets are idiots sending nothing but a picture of their dick, along with a one word response like, "Yo" or "wassup!". She absolutely hates this and deletes every single one of them. (which is too bad, because some of the dicks are downright impressive, I have to say)

I see lots and lots of similar complaints from other hotwives here as well. Almost all of them have the same basic complaint: They may want dick pics at some point, but before then, they want the guy to act like a normal guy. Introduce himself, show a PG picture of himself, engage in a bit of conversation, etc. Then, when there's some sort of rapport established, sure, show them the goods. But don't lead with it.

So, to all the hotwives out there: do any of you actually prefer to see dick pics "lets hook up" as the first point of contact from a new potential dude?

To the dudes, you're missing out on a TON of hot-looking hotwives out there by not taking a few minutes to at least warm up the girl before you start virtually shoving your dick in their face. I'm not saying you need to engage in endless conversation, but at least start with something that shows you're a normal dude who has basic conversational skills. Don't believe me? Try it sometime and see what sort of results you get.