Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Rule 1: Ad Requirements
PLEASE READ: Your title should ONLY share basic information about you: Age, gender, role and location. You are required to post a picture. The picture must be of just yourself unless it meets the requirements for a success post.
The ad must be meaningful - you MUST post additional context about yourself and what you are looking for. Add a comment and consider sharing your kinks, limits, experience in the lifestyle, and any additional information that may be valuable for the community.
Rule 2: Keep it Civil
Keep it civil. Be respectful, be encouraging and be nice to each other. There is ZERO tolerance for racism and misogyny.
Rule 3: Do not post personal contact information
This one is obvious. No KiK or SC IDs in the ad. All of that stuff can be done in private DM. Your ads are simply who you are and what you want - it's on the responder to write and establish contact.
Rule 4: Posting Frequency
The limit for posts will be one per week from thirds/bulls. Wives/Couples may post more often, so long as they are unique posts (same ad and a different pic isn't unique, FYI). Spamming the sub to attempt to keep yourself at the top of the page isn't going to be tolerated. The only exception to this is if you are traveling and wish to post (please note that traveling between, oh, say Brooklyn and Queens is NOT traveling and that post will be pulled).
Rule 5: No online only or just chatting posts
This isn't /r/Hotwifechat... this sub's sole purpose is putting thirds together with wives and couples for sexy fun playtime. Posts will be pulled and repeated violations will get your banned. There are plenty of subs that exist for chatting, and this isn't one of them.
This sub is not for finding content creation partners.
This sub is to support the hotwife and cuckold lifestyle and not to support the creation of content for paid sites (OF, etc). Any post directly referencing that a search is for content creation partners will be removed and will result in being banned. There are subs for that, and this one isn't one of them.
Rule 7: Verification
Rule 8: Success Stories
The purpose of a Success Story is to celebrate a r/HotwifeRequests playdate. That the sub helped in matching a bull-hotwife-couple together. To post a Success Story, you need to show it happened by:
- The link to the original r/HotwifeRequests ad post
- A comment tagging all users in the playdate so that they can reply to verify that the date actually happened.
- A picture from the playdate.
Consent is important - and we like to show real success, not a 1 day old account saying it's true.
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