Hi everyone...

As we end this year, we hope that everyone is healthy and navigating life and it's challenges well. We just wanted to reinforce a few quick things for the community, especially all of our new members.

First, this isn't a throwaway pic post sub. We require effort because we believe that the great wives/couples searching for partners deserve it. Take rule #1 seriously - every post needs an ad. It's not a hard bar to get over, and honestly, I hate wasting my time banning people for not being to write a single sentence.

Second, unless your profile/verification is as a couple, you cannot post content (pics/videos) of anyone except yourself unless you can demonstrate consent. This can be done by tagging a verified member (yes, they must be verified somewhere) or by taking a verification style pic during a playdate. NO EXCEPTIONS. We take privacy and discretion and doxxing seriously here and will have very little tolerance for repeated violations of this.

Lastly, this sub is primarily to promote the amateurs enjoying this lifestyle. I understand that some of you are involved in content creation/monetizing your content/sex work, but that's not the purpose of this sub - there are subs expressly for that. If you attempt to promote your OF, search for content creation partners or otherwise try to bring your business into it, it will result in an immediate ban.

Please feel free to reach out to your mods at any time if you have question, concerns or ideas for how to make the community better. Remember, we're not just mods, but every one of us do *this* - so we understand the challenges and frustrations of this lifestyle.

Have a happy new year everyone, and here's hoping we see a lot of success posts in 2022.