It happened again today. We had a redditor reach out pretending to be a couple interested in meeting us. Gave us both their ages, included face pics, talked about what they both liked.

But soon, all of the commentary was just about what the guy liked and wanted. When I got suspicious and put him on the spot, he told us that his wife was having self image issues and wasn't comfortable doing a meet right now, but she didn't mind him playing.

Right.

This has happened several times. I'd love to understand why some guys feel like this is a valid strategy. We clearly state that we mostly meet guys. Pretending to be a couple to get us chatting is only going to end up with us finding out that hello, you are lying.

The stupid thing is, we would have absolutely met this guy (assuming he actually had recent std results). But by lying to us, he demonstrated that we can't trust him. Sorry, we aren't going to meet a stranger for sex when we KNOW he's lying to us.

Guys, if you're hoping to meet a couple alone, OWN THAT. Be truthful. If you're married, some couples won't meet you - but some will. If you lie about being a couple playing together, you pretty much guaranteed that no one will meet you.