I somehow stumbled on this and other likeminded subs about 3 years back on another account and finally decided to make a completely separate account to be active. The other day I came clean to my soon to be wife about my fantasies and kink regarding this lifestyle. I confirmed even more that this girl was definitely the one for me after not being shamed or ridiculed at all for my thoughts. I was nervous as hell telling her my stance on the lifestyle and my hopes for us and the future.

That being said, she was receptive in the sense of hearing me out but not to doing anything ourselves physically, which I completely expected. She told me “if she ever had other thoughts of being with other people though, she’d definitely come to me first.” Which only further solidified my love for this woman.

My question to those here is, for those that started slow, or never got into the lifestyle because of hesitations from their SO, what kind of role play did you do or what did you include in the dialogue? She’s open to partaking in facilitating my interest from a role-play standpoint, but nothing more at this moment.

I have no interest in pushing past her comforts and want to work with her. Looking for ideas/insight. Thanks.