I want to preface this story by letting you know that this isn’t a “smear campaign”, and no identifying information will be provided. This is merely a true story that may help guide other single males who wish to participate in the lifestyle, and help them avoid making a mistake that could destroy the trust that a couple has in them.

My husband and I have been in the Swinger/Hotwife lifestyle for around 15 years, and have had tons of wonderful experiences. We are both very comfortable with our sexuality, and have developed a level of communication that would rival even the strongest of monogamous relationships. We have many years of experience under our belt, and we learn/grow with each encounter.

Recently, we moved back to the east coast from out west. When we first moved, we didn’t know anyone, and basically had to start from scratch finding new social circles to join, and new individuals to play with in private. It is not an easy task. After a couple months of searching, we stumbled across a man (we’ll call him Adam) who was interested in meeting up with us for a drink to see if there was any chemistry between the three of us. From personal experience, meeting someone new always goes better when meeting in a public area without any level of expectation. When Adam suggested going out for drinks and apps, we took this as a good sign. The three of us met at a popular bar/restaurant in town and had a couple drinks while getting to know each other. Adam was good looking, articulate, employed, and lived alone. All of these characteristics are brought into consideration when choosing a new playmate. Fast forward a couple hours, and we are all back at his townhome, and Adam and my husband are fucking my brains out. It was an outstanding evening. Even though we agreed to meet without any expectations, that doesn’t mean that you can’t change your mind if everyone is getting along and horny.

Part Two Coming Shortly…