Hey everyone. Over the last month my husband and I have found a really great third for me to play with and everything has been really amazing.

He’s local, discreet and respectful and the sex has been amazing. Most importantly he’s so great with the three of us.

That said as we’ve gotten more comfortable, I’m starting to desire to play solo with him. Part of this is sheer convenience. He lives close to my work and there are times where it would be much easier to stop by after work and have my husband take care of the kids etc at night versus us having to “plan” a date night.

My husband is very supportive but also enjoys watching. I’ll admit, I’ve always felt a bit like I’m “performing” when he watches but have loved how much he enjoys it. That said personally the idea of playing alone without that pressure is very appealing.

Curious if anyone has any watch outs for moving to this type of arrangement. Obviously the first thing is safety but I feel 100% comfortable with this man and so does my husband.

Any feedback is welcome. Thanks :)