I’m the husband in a late 40’s couple who openly discusses the hotwife fantasy, but are far from making it a reality. Last night, in discussing new, ‘entry-level’ type things to explore, talk turned to sharing her nudes, (which we periodically post via our other, shared Reddit account), not just with strangers, but more familiarly with someone(s) we know. On one occasion in the past I briefly showed some to two friends, with her permission. This conversation expanded that idea to doing so more regularly or repeatedly, or even revealing our shared account.

I was (very happily) surprised to discover that revealing her nudity/sexuality was not at all a hesitation on her part, as she is really quite happy with how she looks in her photos. Also, it was not a trust concern with maintaining anonymity within a limited number of close friends.

Rather, it was a concern surrounding how to broach the topic, and how the idea would be received, or even judged. We don’t want to go the invasive ‘accidental text’ route, and I’m curious if others have opened up this topic with friends, (singles or couples), and how they approached it.

Thanks for any perspective!

Edit: Thanks for the feedback! Responses from so many different points of view, I couldn’t have asked for better. Thx all!