We dabbled in the lifestyle for a summer; she had some fun and she still teases and flirts quite a bit. We also talked about us both having less serious partners, Poly I guess, but she didn't want to see anyone and felt she would be too jealous of another woman.

Now over a year and a half later she is starting to make little jokes/comments more and more about me pursuing and juggling multiple women. Our dynamic has changed this year after a ruff patch. Now our relationship seems newer and much less guarded, so that's likely when her opinion's shifted. I am going to talk with her later about it when it feels right.

I'm curious about how often wives opinions have shifted with the lifestyle and over time in this regard.

edit: We talked.

She likes the idea of other women wanting me. She likes the idea of me teasing them. Sometimes she likes the idea of me dominating them. She doesn't feel 'possessive' as much these days, but it depends.

She described it as, when she thinks the girl is nice or interesting, she can think about me with her, as a concept and our dynamics during sex. It depends on the girl and the whole situation.

She'll agreed to tell me if she is cool with it down the road, til then, she told me to take my shirt off when im chopping wood from now on for her and my neighbor 🤷‍♂️