This is more of a Stag/vixen situation moreso than hotwifing.

GF and I planned to jump into this. She has a couple men lined up (have not done yet). One is a former lover of hers. I have no issue with the other men she talks to, but this one in particular is disrespectful towards me and that rubs me the wrong way. I'm not interested in the humiliation experience, and we both said we're only as dedicated as our weakest link. At the end of the day I'm not adamantly against this, but I'd rather she choose one of the other men instead of this guy. But it's her decision.

Fast forward a week...I have been speaking with a former lover of mine. And we've set up a meeting. I told GF and she got some emotions about it. She didn't feel disrespected, she felt territorial. She's afraid the old friend will catch feelings.

We're only as dedicated as our weakest link.

So my question is how many dealt with these emotions and what led you to move forward in spite of feelings of disrespect or being territorial?