As title states. Wife and I have been a straight hotwife couple for years and she plays solo 99% of the time which has worked well for us.

Lately, I'm struggling with her more intimate details with her current playmate she's been having sex with for the past 3 months about 2 or 3 times a month IE: caressing, tracing over each other's bodies, lots of extra little body kisses, snuggling for an hour between sessions(they usually go twice).

The sex is hot and when I'm focused on just them fucking and him giving her orgasms then all is good. But, there seems to be a lot more of those intimate moments for lack of a better term and that's distracting me from the hot sex and thinking about just her fucking. It's almost like I'm watching them form a bond sometimes. Idk if that describes it well.

Not sure if I'm over thinking, or looking into the small details too much or if there is a different way to look at it vs thinking they are being so "intimate". 😕